Practical Advice to Reuniting with Your Boyfriend

Although there is plenty advice available on the question of how to get your boyfriend back most of it really is not worth very much. Begging him to take you back really does not strike me as a good way of going about things.



Some of the advice you will hear pertains to employing mind games and tactics to provoke him to jealousy and sometimes it will work but basing a relationship on games and jealousy is never a good idea. You might be so desperate that you don't really care but that type of relationship is really not likely to last. The problems of the past will resurface and you will simply end up back where you are - apart.



Without resorting to games, trickery or even love spells how about just apologizing for what you did wrong? Sounds simple doesn't it? Now, I'm not suggesting that the whole breakup was your fault, but more than likely you did one or two things wrong. It can't hurt to apologize for that.



Once you are able to acknowledge that you also made mistakes in the relationship the situation becomes one that allows you to make changes. If you can do this it will help you to not make the same mistakes again, causing each other heartache, should the two of you work things out and get back together.



That one piece of advice on getting your boyfriend back is good even if the two of you fail to reunite. At least you will know what things not to do in your next relationship. Either way, you win if you take the time to figure out your mistakes and make changes.



When you make contact for the purpose of giving your apology keep it short and sweet. Let him know that you understand your mistakes and that you are genuinely sorry for any pain that you caused him.



Do not turn it into a drama with crying and begging thrown in. Also do not have lofty expectations that he will take you back then and there. Chances are that he won't. He may take time to think it over in order to decide if he is prepared to give the relationship another try with the new and more mature you.



If he doesn't immediately take you back, give him space. Don't contact him for a while. Let him have time to think things over and decide for himself what he wants to do. If you pester him you will most likely just make the situation worse.



During this period, don't sit by the phone and wait for his call. Live your life. Do something to make you feel really good about yourself, and making yourself look really hot can't hurt either. Spend time with friends. Do not just sit around and worry, that will make time seem to go much more slowly.



Following the above advice will stand you in much better stead when it comes to getting your man back again rather than following the advice to play games and make him jealous. Ultimately it is all up to you so go do it!



If you would like more information on getting back an ex check out Magic of Making Up.